List 10 things you will never do.

  1. I will never smoke weed or cigarettes
  2. I will never get so drunk that I black out
  3. I will never live miserably in an abusive or loveless relationship
  4. I will never let my kids live in misery because I am selfish
  5. I will never hurt my children
  6. I will never abuse my husband
  7. I will never cheat on my husband/fiancé/boyfriend
  8. I will never waste my time on someone who doesn’t deserve it
  9. I will never make my kids feel unwanted, needed or like they’re not worth it
  10. I will never hurt myself by staying with someone who hurts me


Imagine you are at your next high school reunion. How do you think your old classmates would react to the person you are today?

At my high school reunion, I hope my old classmates would react to the way I am now by being surprised. I am learning as I get older to be happier and I’ve grown up and realized it isn’t about being popular. It isn’t about how popular you are or how well you fit in with the cool kids. I have learned to love myself and I don’t care what other people think about me anymore. High school me was so much different than the me now. I have grown and matured more in the last two years than I expected. The girls who used to treat me like crap, don’t mean anything to me anymore. They were just motivation for me to grow into a better me instead.



You have been given $100 on the condition that you must spend it all on yourself. What will you do with your money?

If I was given $100 to only spend on myself, I would do the one thing I want to buy myself for Christmas, the six Star Wars movies on iTunes so I can watch it on my MacBook when I go on vacations and/or just for the heck of it. I love Star Wars, if no one has seen from my social media, and I would love to be able to watch the movies anywhere. Technology is evolving, so DVD’s may not be around much longer. It’ll be straight computerized.


What phrase would you love to hear right now?

I’d love to hear anything right now. Whether it be “I miss you” from a friend far away, “I love you” from family or someone special, or even “I need you” from the person I most want it from. It wouldn’t be so bad to have that one person back to say these things but then again, it wouldn’t be good either… I’m probably better off without them, even if it’s not what I want.


What’s the fun parts about being single and what’s the fun parts about being in a relationship?

I think the best parts about being single is not worrying about anyone else. You can be by yourself, talk to whoever you want without someone being jealous, you can work on you and focus on school (that’s what I’m currently doing). The best parts about being in a relationship is being able to have someone to count on, talk to all the time, having a best friend that is also your partner. Having someone to cuddle up and watch tv with for hours, kiss whenever you want to, bring you gifts and flowers and vice versa. I’ll be honest, I miss being in a relationship, but I’m not going to get into one until I find someone who I actually want to fight for and spend the time on that it takes to make a relationship work.


If you could visit anyone on the planet right now, who would you visit?

If I could visit anyone on this planet right now, it would probably be my family in NY. I love going up there and seeing everyone. I love the feeling of being in New York and seeing my family. It makes me feel young and like a kid again because I was so young when I lived there. I love seeing my baby cousins in their own homes and how much they have grown and can talk now. It’s the best.


Describe your first kiss

My first kiss was an awkward experience, and he would say the same thing about it. I was a 13-year-old eighth grader with her first boyfriend. We had been dating for like a week and he was like “I want to kiss you”. I was so nervous because obviously I never kissed someone before. So, I asked my friends what to do and they told me to just do it. I told him I’d kiss him at the homecoming dance that Saturday, but the entire dance, I was trying so hard to avoid it. I didn’t want to do it wrong! So, I didn’t end up kissing him and he ended up breaking up with me because of it… He was a brat! We got back together, and we ended up kissing behind a bus at the end of the school day. It was awkward as heck because it was a peck (we had to make sure no teachers saw) and we were 13! Plus, I had my eyes open, lol. Most awkward experience ever!


If you could change one personality trait about yourself, would you? Which one?

If I could change one personality trait about myself, I would change the fact that I’m too shy and not very into the social, party crowd. I wish sometimes, that I was a more social person who got invited to parties and hung out with the bigger crowd. I think if I were like that, I would’ve done cheerleading like I always wanted to. But that’s just something about me, that I can’t change even if I wanted to, it’s just not me.


Do you have a favorite spot to go out for coffee or for dinner? What makes this spot so great?

I used to have a favorite spot for dinner, it was the best place to go. I loved the food, the staff, even the management was great. I was a customer there for about two years before I had a huge graduation party on their patio. After that, I got a job there and improved as worker very well over the year I worked there. I worked about four different jobs there and became the only employee to help out the most. I got switched off one job and asked to do another at the last minute, sometimes even as I was walking through the door. I still loved the food, and my parents still came in every week to sit in my section or just come visit the staff because they were not only our waitresses or waiters but our friends too. However, I got another job and ended up quitting this restaurant, I handed in a two weeks like a respectful employee, and then, I stopped working there. In the last three months of not working there, I have been in to eat three times. The last time I was there, the GM was there, the first time I’d seen her since I quit. She told all the servers except mine, to not speak to my table. Our normal friends who came to see us and talk to us, didn’t. And my mother was incredibly offended and hurt. People who once talked to her like a friend, wouldn’t even look in her direction. The atmosphere has changed and we no longer will go into that favorite spot.. Not only because of the way they treated me, but the way they treated my mom.


Do you have any piercings? Do you like them on other people? Does it matter where they are?

I have 12 piercings and I love them. I think they’re good on other people, just not the weird ones that go across the face and have connecting chains and stuff. I like piercings on the ear, nose, belly button, and lip. Other than that it is kinda weird to do like dermals and stuff.